How to maintain a good relationship with her Japanese

It's strange to have a foreign girlfriend, and interracial relationships can help you build interesting relationships. In anime and Japanese stories, Japanese girls are thought to be cute dolls who innocently blink their eyes no matter what they see. It's true that Japanese women are cute, but actually dating is not something you see in anime. (It depends on what you actually see)

Unfortunately, I'm not an expert, so I'm not going to tell you how to get a Japanese girlfriend, but based on my experience, I'd like to know how the Japanese relationship with her is. I would like to explain. The characteristics common to her Japanese are as follows.

Hygiene

Japanese girls are usually impeccable and well-groomed. If a Japanese girl is interested in you, she always tries to keep cleanliness and fragrance around the person she is interested in. Even if you have been dating for a long time, this habit will not change much.

There is no word "I love you"

In Japan, most couples do not express or openly express their love for each other. Just because she doesn't say "favor" doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Usually, it is common to express affection by saying words such as "cute" and "daisuki".

Dutch treat

For the first few dates, it's normal to split the bill. Japanese girlfriends usually pay for themselves and it's not awkward for them. The deeper the relationship, the more men may be expecting to pay. But you can always expect financial help from them.

Makeup

Apparently, it is a social rule for Japanese women to wear makeup when they leave the house. I think this is true for girls in any country. So, no matter how much you try to tell that you don't need full make-up for a casual walk in the park, you have to wait until the make-up is finished.

You are a man

Japanese women are financially stable and independent, but I still think men are better in the social hierarchy. This doesn't mean women say bad things about you, but most Japanese women won't have a feminist perspective. Men have a say in important decisions.

Politeness

Japanese girls are on average polite compared to girls in other countries. Even if I have love, I don't yell too much and I don't argue. In some cultures, quarreling between couples can be healthy, but Japanese girls are straightforward and get angry when yelled at. If you have a strong argument, you may cry. Also, I don't want to be sarcastic. Simply avoid it.

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Present

Japanese girl friends often give presents. This is because there is a Japanese culture of "giving presents many times a year." You would also expect the same from you. If you're like me and often forget your presents, be prepared to get angry with her.

Let me hold my wallet

This happens after marriage for Japanese couples, but it's best to clear it when you're actively dating a Japanese woman. Japanese households are often run economically by women. The husband gives his salary to his wife and receives daily pocket money from his wife. If it doesn't suit your personality, talk to your fiancée before getting married.

Meeting with parents

Meeting her Japanese parents is a clear indication that she is thinking of marrying you someday. Also, for many Japanese women, the consent of their parents is essential for marriage. So if you're thinking of marrying her, be prepared to make a good impression when you meet her parents.

Utham

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This article is a partial re-edit of the article published in Guidable by KARUTA.
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